Empathy

Emphaty is basicly to put yourself in someone else's shoes and to understand people by connecting to what is truely important for these people at that moment and what are their feelings and needs. The main idea behind developing empathy is to build trust and sense care to other person. The wrong use of empathy is trying to manipulate others because it is breaking the trust and communication between people and create a disconnection. There are also some common human behaviours in our communications like advising, educating, consoling, explaning or correcting. These behaviours seems to be an empathy but they are not responding to the real messages in a conversation which are the feelings and needs because we need to observe and understand people's feelings and needs to develop a proper empathy. In the video below, we can see that people in the same place have all different thoughts, feelings and needs.